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年少輕狂時,總覺得「代溝」是一道無法橫越的鴻溝。




不論你怎麼表白、怎麼據理力爭,結果就是巨大的無力與無奈,占據雙方整個心靈。




 




等到自己為人父母時,才慢慢體會到,原來「代溝」在人生路途上,似乎是每個人無法避免的困境。




 




人心會隨著人生歷練在轉變。無論是多麼的年少輕狂,總有一天,還是會慢慢老去、慢慢與年輕的歲月漸行漸遠。




 




我想,當我年老時,不可避免的,我還是會不免俗的與我心愛的下一代產生「代溝」。現在,我只能不斷的提醒自己,握在手中的線,要輕輕的、慢慢的放,讓線的另一頭的風箏,自由自在、隨心翱翔於屬於自己的天空。




 




不過,我還是會努力的讓孩子明瞭,手握的線不會輕易放開,因為,無論兒女長多大,都是父母的心頭肉啊!




 




The living
years
」是由Mike + the Mechanics這個英國搖滾樂團所演唱的。記得,當年在美國念書時,一回無意中在車上的廣播節目聽到,那時正值年少輕狂的我,有種被當頭棒喝的感覺。不過,人總是不見棺材不流淚,一直到自己當上媽媽,才真正體會到歌詞中對於「代溝」的感慨與無奈!


 





 





The living years (歌詞)




Every generation

Blames the one before

And all of their frustrations

Come beating on your door



I know that I’m a prisoner

To all my father held so dear

I know that I’m a hostage

To all his hopes and fears

I just wish I could have told him in the living years



Crumpled bits of paper

Filled with imperfect thought

Stilted conversations

I'm afraid that's all we've got



You say you just don't see it

He says it's perfect sense

You just can't get agreement

In this present tense

We all talk a different language

Talking in defense



Say it loud, say it clear

You can listen as well as you hear

It's too late when we die

To admit we don't see eye to eye



So we open up a quarrel

Between the present and the past

We only sacrifice the future

It's the bitterness that lasts





So don't yield to the fortunes

You sometimes see as fate

It may have a new perspective

On a different day

And if you don't give up, and don't give in

You may just be o.k.



Say it loud, say it clear

You can listen as well as you hear

It's too late when we die

To admit we don't see eye to eye



I wasn't there that morning

When my father passed away

I didn't
 get to tell him

All the things I had to say



I think I caught his spirit

Later that same year

I'm sure I heard his echo

In my baby's new born tears

I just wish I could have told him in the living years



Say it loud, say it clear

You can listen as well as you hear

It's too late when we die

To admit we don't see eye to eye




 



 








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